No disrespect to anyone with this comment but at the end of the day racing for almost all of us is totally discretionary. If we can afford to fund our expensive hobby to get our vehicles to the starting line but dont have a solid plan for taking care of our families of things go bad, then we’re wrong. If we can afford 5 and 6 figure race vehicles in our garage but need family members to rely on GoFundMe’s if we are hurt, we’re wrong.
First and foremost, my heart goes out to Holly for the tragic loss of her husband.
That said, J Prich is absolutely right.
I have been managing risk, significant risk, in the first person, for over 40 years now. I was a professional skateboarder in the '70s. I have been involved in motorsports ever since. I've gone over 200 mph on a motorcycle. I've ridden the Snaefel Mountain Course on the Isle of Man during the TT, at triple-digit speeds. I've driven the Nurburgring Nordschleife during Touristenfahrten at triple-digit speeds. And I retired from a career spanning 30 years, of running towards gunfire when everyone else was running away. I guess I've been successful at managing significant risk, since I'm still here.
For most of the last 40 years, I've been very cognizant of the potential consequences of significant risk. A lot of that, involved my willingness to accept the potential consequences of significant risk, including the effects it would have on my family, and that has gone a long ways towards shaping my decisions when it comes to significant risk. For that reason, I quit riding motorcycles for general transportation purposes about 10 years ago, for example.
My approach to this was tested a few years ago, when I was injured in the line of duty. I received a full paycheck for a year and a half during reconstructive surgery and a lot of painful rehabilitative physical therapy before I was ultimately retired by my injuries, but all of my overtime income immediately stopped, which was like taking a sudden unexpected $50-70K pay cut, which was obviously life-changing. But we were prepared to accept things even worse than that, so we changed our life to match our new smaller income.
One thing that I have also learned, is that whenever there is a tragic loss of life, there are often important lessons that we can learn, even though it can be painful to dig into the incident. To be unwilling to dig into these incidents, and/or to ignore these lessons, is for that person to have died in vain. From this incident, I have learned a lesson- I was planning on just bringing the SCORE-recommended first-aid kit to the B1K in November, but now I have decided to also bring my BOK (Blowout Kit) for major bleeds, with multiple combat tourniquets, chest seals, Israeli bandage, "penny-cutter" trauma shears, rubber gloves, combat QuikClot, and so on.
Adding this type of medical equipment, and the training to use it, might be a good way to memorialize Holly's late husband, that other people might survive, because of lessons we learned from this incident. A proper BOK can be assembled for roughly $100, and the training only takes a day or two.
Again, Holly, my heart goes out to you for your loss.