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JEFFRPM

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Living in wyoming has its ups and downs just like any other place but to get a honest opinion is difficult at best [nobody dares say anything that might hurt your feelings] my issue is my father he married this thing 17 years ago after mom died, she went from a crappy apartment and a junker chevett to a mansion and a beemer in about 3 months it has gone to her head now the entire mountian has to kiss her as s and she has made my father put her name on every piece of property she can find [she has freinds] WTF does she swallow or what. Now things have got so bad he comes up with every excuse not to go trail riding or snowmobiling or shooting with me or my brother i think the wifee wont let him go cause she dosen't have control of him while he is gone. oh BTW i forgot to mention that she has a girlfreind that is 20 years younger than herself living with them they sleep in the same room and dear ole dad sleeps in the guest house. trust me I have talked to him about this for years he just says stay out of it so i do. I think its time the pictures of him doing the sheep [or whatever she holds over his head] need to be made public so the man can get out from under this B it ch. sorry about the rant but we were going to take the 4 wheelers out today and look for antlers my brother comes all the way here to see his dad that he hasen't seen for 8 months and he cant go.
 

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well his just sucks jeff i am sorry it is this way does she know that you don't like her ?

and if you bought a ticket to go somewhere and say hey it is paid for your going you have no excuses would you be able to get him to go ?

have you checked to see if there is a clause that you can put in about her and her girlfriend and get proof they are messing around so she does not get anything?

i can't say i know what it is like my dad and i are real close so i can only imagine what you are going through gook luck with everything i think if you got him a ticket to go somewhere like say the sonoma nascar race you can say i have your tickets and i am no taking NO for an answer or something that he is into father's day is coming up quick
 

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Family issues like that are not good. You wont be able to make decisions for your Dad. You can tell hm how you feel though. Its totally his choice and we would hope that he would have a chat with the wife about you (Kids) that were around before her. Its his choice though. Good luck....
 

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Do you have any close friends, or maybe clergy to talk this over with? I don't think that airing your families personal matters on the internet is the best choice.
 

Mark Newhan

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JESUS! I have a buddy that this has happened to with his grandpa. She is a bonifide lesbo and this story is identical. The power of a vagina, geesh! I hope his lawyers are not dumb!

Does she hunt? hehe
 

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same situation happened with me.

We just bought a dog for a couple thousand, and I haven't gone riding with my dad in the desert for a couple years. oh well. I can't do crap about it. I'm just being a teenager appearently.
 

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Sorry Bro,
I can kind of relate were your coming from,mom and dad were divorced about 30 years ago,dad remarried some years ago,I love my dad but our relationship doesn't seem the same..

IMO, have a hart to hart with him,if he doesn't see the light,it will still give him something to think about!!! Hopefully he will face it ,he's already got to be questioning things due to current situation at home!!!!!

Good Luck,Bro!!!
 

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JESUS! I have a buddy that this has happened to with his grandpa. She is a bonifide lesbo and this story is identical. The power of a vagina, geesh! I hope his lawyers are not dumb!

Does she hunt? hehe
I thought the EXACT same thing!!


Hunting accidents do happen....
 

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any pictures of the girlfriend.
 

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You'll probably get him back, but what will continue to suck is her name on the properties part. If is is still doing any thinking with his main brain, he should set something aside, way aside. Sorry for for such a sitution.
 

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Dads got to find out where the B it ch hid his balls:mad: If she was putting out some good stuff, that would one thing:p but it sounds like she givin it up elsewhere:p I'd take her huntin, even if she don't hunt:D
 

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I thought the EXACT same thing!!


Hunting accidents do happen....
lol dude i live in south dakota if you need some help cough "hunting" cough cough.......
let me know. lol
 

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My dad has been in this mess so long I doubt he even knows what happy Is. the last time we went on a road bike ride [sept 07] he was constantly calling in to her and walking away from the group and the rest of us [11 of us] did not want anything to do with the home front they were giving him alot of sh !t over it most of the guys on the trip were in their late 50's to 60's so they have been around the track a few times. He spends his days in the shop from 6 am to 6 or 7 pm farting around with small machine work and making one of those steam engines out of scrap steel he never goes home to eat he has everything you need at the shop I have invited him to dinner MANY times but the broad wont let him. Something that just came to mind as I'm writing this is he has not seen my kids ages 13 and 14 for over a year but he shure as he!! sees that wife of his daughter's 2 kids As far as a hunting trip goes no way she is the biggest greeny non meat eating person I've ever met that lives on a ranch in the largest meat eating per capita place on the planet. And as far as talking about this on a public forum I could care less who reads this You folks out their are the LARGEST MOST WONDERFUL FAMILY I have ever met [ I have desert raced for over 30 years] WE HELP EACH OTHER:)
 

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Jeff, I feel your frustration. You need to talk to your Dad or write him a letter explaining your concern. However you need to be diplomatic in your efforts. Remember love is blind! Just ask him, "How come ?" Tell him," Your worried about him."

Best of luck.......Stimp
 

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Jeff,

Looks like your Dad has deep self esteem issues. How old is he? I suggest you take some time off work and go with your Dad in a "only Boys" vacation. Chose carefully a destination and have a blast and enjoy him.....Dont bring the subject up if he doesnt bring it.

The power of Vagina fades fast, specially at old age, but the link between a father and son only grows if you know how to fertilize it.

Every year I take a week off to travel to Vegas usually with my brothers, I cant tell you how strongly I recommend you solo male bonding with your loved ones.
 

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I have spoken to him about this along with my brother he says one thing and then same ol s h !t. He will be 69 this thursday It will be like most birthdays I meet him at a undisclosed location give him the gift he leaves has big old party at his house [the ol lady lets him in the place on special occasions] she invites her entire trailer trash family to the party to drink the liquor cabnet dry and then they all leave. meanwhile my brother and I are not allowed to partake cause she thinks we will get something out of him that she hasen't allready taken from him.
 

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I have spoken to him about this along with my brother he says one thing and then same ol s h !t. He will be 69 this thursday It will be like most birthdays I meet him at a undisclosed location give him the gift he leaves has big old party at his house [the ol lady lets him in the place on special occasions] she invites her entire trailer trash family to the party to drink the liquor cabnet dry and then they all leave. meanwhile my brother and I are not allowed to partake cause she thinks we will get something out of him that she hasen't allready taken from him.

Make a few T-Shirts with the Legend Roberts 69, one shirt per brother, let that stupid party take place.... A week after, Surprise your Dad with some plane tickets, travel with your brothers (males only) and head down to Vegas to any race, casinos and maybe a strip club or bar.

While there, try to relax and party to what ever point is comfortable for you and him, have fun.....male bond.

That B**tch of step mom cant compete against your filial love. Fight her on your terms, a woman cant compete vs blood....at the end of the day she is a total stranger, you are his blood.

Spend quality time with him, his mind will return to the right place once he is reminded how loved and necessary is to you guys.

Honestly, words and talks wont do crap, love and quality time will be the key. If it doesnt work, you at least will have a great time to remember when your Dad is not here anymore.
 

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I have spoken to him about this along with my brother he says one thing and then same ol s h !t. He will be 69 this thursday It will be like most birthdays I meet him at a undisclosed location give him the gift he leaves has big old party at his house [the ol lady lets him in the place on special occasions] she invites her entire trailer trash family to the party to drink the liquor cabnet dry and then they all leave. meanwhile my brother and I are not allowed to partake cause she thinks we will get something out of him that she hasen't allready taken from him.

Jeff,

This situation is making me ill. I did not know my biological father and was raised by my adopted dad. He was a great man and allthough we were poor, a similar thing happened with a womwn he married when I was about 19. I was out of the house. She met him a Black Angus, wesseled her way into his life and shortly after she imported her 3 children, that were living with their father in Germany, he was military. Once she was in it was difficult to spend any time with him. He would not come to Christmas because he "did not have money for gift exchange". There is tons more but you get the idea. He died 4/3/07 and I had not spent but a few hours with him over the past decade. We interned him in the wall @ Fort Rosecrans, which was a fitting place for him as he was an honorable man stickened down by the era he grew up in, beer, cigarettes and every female relaationship he had. God bless you pop!

Jeff... fight for him before it is to late buddy!
 

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I have spoken to him about this along with my brother he says one thing and then same ol s h !t. He will be 69 this thursday It will be like most birthdays I meet him at a undisclosed location give him the gift he leaves has big old party at his house [the ol lady lets him in the place on special occasions] she invites her entire trailer trash family to the party to drink the liquor cabnet dry and then they all leave. meanwhile my brother and I are not allowed to partake cause she thinks we will get something out of him that she hasen't allready taken from him.
your not allowed to be at his party. that is some major b.s I would go and show up unannounced and just see what she says.
 
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