I have a buddy who came home from work today to find his wife had packed her stuff and moved out. She gave no warnings ( at least he did not catch them as most men don't ) and they both want it done. Anyone know a good lawyer in the Escondido area. They have agreed on the terms, and she want to move away asap. She wants him to give her some money so she can leave. I told him not to give her a dime until he speaks with a lawyer, but he is afraid she will get mad and want more. They have a house, but she just wants her car, their dogs, and $7,000 to leave. I say money well spent on his end, but I still think he should get better legal advice. Can anyone recommend somebody who could draw the paperwork up and get this done fast. At least the paperwork part so she could sign it, and he could decide to pay her or not.